Your last or only child is heading off to college. This can feel both triumphant and crushing as you’ve launched them into the first stage of what will eventually be an independent adult life, but your own life is also going to change immensely. So much of it has centered around your child and their needs that you can feel lost for a while when you think about the future without them around every single day. There are a few things you can do to help you adjust and make this time less difficult.
Think About Costs
Your child may be out of the house, but the rising expense of college tuition and the general cost of living increase means that you might be spending more than ever. It’s a good idea to strategize about how you’re going to afford this, including looking at loans and scholarships. Your child might be struggling to qualify for some loans without a cosigner. However, if you do cosign, you’re responsible for the entire debt if your child doesn’t pay it. While it can be frustrating for your child if you won’t cosign, you may be wondering what your obligations really are. Do some research and think about whether this is something you’re prepared to do or if you can help your child seek funding in some other way. [Read more…]