People move for many reasons including the end of a relationship, college, just starting out in life, work, cost of living or even a longing for adventure. While we don’t share the hardships of moving that our settler ancestors did, moving is still considered a ‘big deal’ and is in the top 5 of the most stressful things we’ll ever experience. Here are some things to consider before deciding where, and if, you move.
Work
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If you’re moving for a job, then you don’t really have to worry about this one. However, moving somewhere without having a job lined up can be incredibly stressful. One of the biggest mistakes people make when moving is going to an area where they know nothing about the job market. Not having a job can make it difficult to rent a house or apartment.
Cost of Living
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While many people move to find a lower cost of living, many more are shocked by a high cost of living once they arrive. Oftentimes, the cost of living affects the amount of money you make at your new job. Surprisingly, many places, especially resort areas, have a higher-than-average cost of living while offering lower-than-average wages.
Safety
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Some states, even some towns, are safer than others. While this might not be apparent on a quick visit, a simple search of public records will help you determine if you are comfortable with the level of safety your possible new home provides.
What Is The Area Really Like?
Consider the physical climate and the culture. You need to ensure you’re comfortable with both prior to your move. For example, it’s common for people to move to beach areas without taking into account the uncertainty of the storm season. It’s also common for city people to move to the country without taking into account the lack of stimulation.
Support
One of the biggest deterrents when it comes to moving is the lack of your support system. Since you can only talk to your friends and family remotely after your move, you might end up feeling alone. Some areas are more welcoming to strangers than others. Getting involved with community activities, like the PTA (if you have kids), a local charity or event is a great place to start.
Places That Pay You
Some areas are so desperate for people to move in that they will actually give you financial incentives to move there. If you’re moving to have an adventure, then these areas might be places worth moving to. These incentives can range from money for college, to money to fix up your home, to a monthly check. Michigan, Alaska and Nebraska are only three of the states that offer such incentives.
Think about your reasons for moving carefully and the impact that it will make on your life. Can you find a job? Do you mind the loss of your support system? You might decide that moving isn’t right for you right now, or perhaps, moving will be best choice you’ve ever made.
Crystal @ Simply Being Mommy.com says
I always research the area before we move. I have to make sure my family is safe.
HilLesha @To the Motherhood says
Great tips!
Colleen says
Work and cost of living are so important.
Kathleen says
Great tips! Moving to a new place definitely requires a lot of planning.
Jennifer says
I had no idea some places had incentives for you to move there
Rachel @ Following In My Shoes says
We’ve realized that our cost of living here is definitely slightly higher than when we lived in Houston…. especially when it comes to groceries. It’s crazy.
Lisa says
Great tips!
Ty @ Mama of 3 Munchkins says
Great tips!
Leilani says
Every time I’ve mentioned moving to a new city or state to my husband, he always reminds me of cost of living.
Emily @FamilyNLifeLV says
Cost of living is big here – I’d like to move somewhere a little less so.
Anne - Mommy Has to Work says
We were able to visit multiple times before we moved.
Starr Greenwell says
These are great and very insightful tips to consider. Thanks so much.