Growing up, I thought that I was going to be a mom that only had one child. Since I was an only child and my mom did her best to spoil me, I thought it only made sense to have only child child when I was older that I could spoil too! A little has changed since the days that I thought my first child was going to be my only child.

I had my first daughter in 1997 and after a few years, I knew that I wanted another child. Raising a little girl was definitely fun, so I wanted to also raise a little boy so she would have a brother. After I had my second daughter in 2004 I thought my baby making days were over. I enjoyed my first pregnancy, but being pregnant to me wasn’t as fun the second time around as the first time. I actually had considered tubal ligation after my second pregnancy when I was pregnant, even though I yearned for a little boy as part of my family.

So after my second daughter was born, our family consisted of a mom, a dad and three sisters. My husband wanted a boy, so we had talked of adopting a son in the future. While I would love a boy of my own, the odds of having another girl was pretty good considering we already had three daughters. A few years went by and then I became pregnant. This pregnancy was not planned at all and know that I so hoped that the ultrasound was going to show that I was carrying .

For the first four months of my pregnancy I wondered every day if I was carrying a boy or a girl. While I would be happy with either, I did have my hopes that my bun in the oven was a little boy. On the day of my ultrasound, when my doctor read that I was having a boy, I was in SHOCK. I thought I was dreaming and had to pinch myself. My husband couldn’t believe it and requested another ultrasound just to ease his mind. I was so excited when my second ultrasound with a different doctor resulted in the same answer.

Once my son was born, I knew my family was finally complete! While things didn’t work out as planned, everything has worked out for the best.  We are now a family of six that can be a lot of chaos, but the family I look forward to spending the rest of my years with!

How and when do you decide your family is complete?

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