Getting married is one of the highlights of our lives. If you are balancing the responsibilities of being a mom, it can be challenging to pull off your dream wedding. Whether you are planning for yourself or one of your best friends, you have to have the time and tools to have a successful wedding day. Here are some tips to get you started.
Prioritize
Wrapping your head around all of the wedding plan details can be exhausting. As a mom, you already have a lot on your plate, and it’s essential to decide what you want. Some brides prefer a fantastic floral arrangement while others wish for an unforgettable venue. Sit down with your fiancé and other family members and write down your priorities in order of importance. You can keep a simple checklist, and you’ll feel a lot more accomplished as you work your way through it.
Get Organized
Procrastinating on your wedding plans can be disastrous. As soon as you set a date, it’s time to start planning immediately. There are essential details to know, like save the date etiquette and wedding invitation protocol. As a general rule of thumb, these invitations should be sent four to six months in advance for a local wedding. For a destination wedding, aim for at least six to 12 months. Mark deadlines on a calendar in a location that you will see every day like your refrigerator or office. Take advantage of wedding planning apps on your phone, and set alerts for things that need to get done. Make decisions early, and you’ll feel a lot more at ease before the big day.
Include Your Kids
You have some of the best party planning residing at home, your kids! Your kids can help you do simple things like putting invitations in envelopes or helping with some of the decorations. Involving them in the ceremony will be a memory that lasts forever, and it will be a lot easier to keep track of them!
Get the Groom Involved
Don’t let your future hubby sit back while you do all the heavy lifting. Remember that it’s his day too, and you should ask him what to get involved with the things he likes. Most guys are in charge of food, drinks, and entertainment. There’s no doubt that he will want an open bar!
Do Your Research
Plan and do lots of research to maximize your time. A hairstylist or photographer that charges twice what you expected would be a waste of time if you didn’t research his costs. Schedule meetings with vendors that you have a better than average chance of hiring. You’ll get a lot more accomplished, and you won’t be running in circles.
Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff
You always want to be in control as a bride and a mom. Your wedding day will not go 100 percent according to plan, but creating an experience that you will remember is more important.
Motherhood and marriage are two of life’s most significant responsibilities. Learning to devote the right amount of time and using all of your available resources will make you the best mom and wife that you can be!
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